By: Joelle Borja, LCSW
Hearing the word military can elicit thoughts of neat and polished uniforms, a protective
force, and the brave few, among other things. What may take a moment to think of, are
those that support the military service member, specifically, the children of the military.
The Department of Defense (DoD) celebrates The Month of the Military Child
throughout the month of April.
Approximately 1.6 million children face childhood circumstances that are unique to the culture and lifestyle of military service. These young people are represented by the color purple; a blend of all branches of service colors. Their flower is a dandelion; a rugged and resilient plant, that thrives in just about any terrain and climate. A wild plant of yellow, thin, petals. Once the petals drop off, a fluffy white ball of seeds open up. It’s a simple-pleasure pastime to pluck the white fluffy plant and watch the seeds blow into the air, often making a wish along with it. Similarly, codes, the opportunities afforded to them, be it education, extra-curricular activities, extended family, or friends. Familiar to the military child is the unfamiliar and unknown; the guarantee of nothing being guaranteed.
These resilient children are the unsung heroes of military service. Military children rarely have one home, one school district or schooling experience, places of worship, or location overall. They do, however, high-five what they can, where they can, with what they have, to ensure our military service members can be where needed, and mission ready. So, as you see the dandelions pop up in green grasses this Spring, think of all the military kids. If you know one, high-five them and maybe lean in to support them, especially if they are in the throes of transitions, or absence of loved ones. If you are one, we thank you.